Conflict Management Techniques

A conflict is a common phenomenon in the workplace. It is also seen as an important aspect of the workplace. A conflict is a situation when the interests, needs, goals or values of involved parties interfere with one another. Different stakeholders may have different priorities. Conflicts may involve team members, departments, projects, organization and client, boss and subordinate, organization needs vs. personal needs. Often, a conflict is a result of perception. Is conflict a bad thing? Not necessarily. Often, a conflict presents opportunities for improvement. Therefore, it is important to understand (and apply) various conflict resolution techniques.


Also known as competing. An individual firmly pursues his or her own concerns despite the resistance of the other person. This may involve pushing one viewpoint at the expense of another or maintaining firm resistance to another person’s actions.

Examples of when forcing may be appropriate

  • In certain situations when all other, less forceful methods, don’t work or are ineffective
  • When you need to stand up for your own rights, resist aggression and pressure
  • When a quick resolution is required and using force is justified (e.g. in a life-threatening situation, to stop an aggression)
  • As a last resort to resolve a long-lasting conflict

Possible advantages of forcing:

  • May provide a quick resolution to a conflict
  • Increases self-esteem and draws respect when firm resistance or actions were a response to an aggression or hostility

Win-Win (Collaborating)

Also known as problem confronting or problem solving. Collaboration involves an attempt to work with the other person to find a win-win solution to the problem in hand – the one that most satisfies the concerns of both parties. The win-win approach sees conflict resolution as an opportunity to come to a mutually beneficial result. It includes identifying the underlying concerns of the opponents and finding an alternative which meets each party’s concerns.

Examples of when collaborating may be appropriate:

  • When consensus and commitment of other parties is important
  • In a collaborative environment
  • When it is required to address the interests of multiple stakeholders
  • When a high level of trust is present
  • When a long-term relationship is important
  • When you need to work through hard feelings, animosity, etc
  • When you don’t want to have full responsibility

Possible advantages of collaborating: 

  • Leads to solving the actual problem
  • Leads to a win-win outcome
  • Reinforces mutual trust and respect
  • Builds a foundation for effective collaboration in the future
  • Shared responsibility of the outcome
  • You earn the reputation of a good negotiator
  • For parties involved, the outcome of the conflict resolution is less stressful (however, the process of finding and establishing a win-win solution may be very involved – see the caveats below)


Compromising looks for an expedient and mutually acceptable solution which partially satisfies both parties.

Examples of when compromise may be appropriate:

  • When the goals are moderately important and not worth the use of more assertive or more involving approaches, such as forcing or collaborating
  • To reach temporary settlement on complex issues
  • To reach expedient solutions on important issues
  • As a first step when the involved parties do not know each other well or haven’t yet developed a high level of mutual trust
  • When collaboration or forcing do not work

Possible advantages of compromise:

  • Faster issue resolution. Compromising may be more practical when time is a factor
  • Can provide a temporary solution while still looking for a win-win solution
  • Lowers the levels of tension and stress resulting from the conflict


Also known as avoiding. This is when a person does not pursue her/his own concerns or those of the opponent. He/she does not address the conflict, sidesteps, postpones or simply withdraws.

Examples of when withdrawing may be appropriate:

  • When the issue is trivial and not worth the effort
  • When more important issues are pressing, and you don’t have time to deal with it
  • In situations where postponing the response is beneficial to you, for example –

·         When it is not the right time or place to confront the issue

·         When you need time to think and collect information before you act (e.g. if you are unprepared or taken by surprise)

                        When you see no chance of getting your concerns met or you would have to put forth unreasonable efforts

                        When you would have to deal with hostility

                        When you are unable to handle the conflict (e.g. if you are too emotionally involved or others can handle it better)

Possible advantages of withdrawing: 

  • When the opponent is forcing / attempts aggression, you may choose to withdraw and postpone your response until you are in a more favourable circumstance for you to push back
  • Withdrawing is a low stress approach when the conflict is short
  • Gives the ability/time to focus on more important or more urgent issues instead
  • Gives you time to better prepare and collect information before you act


Also known as accommodating. Smoothing is accommodating the concerns of other people first of all, rather   than one’s own concerns.

Examples of when smoothing may be appropriate:

  • When it is important to provide a temporary relief from the conflict or by time until you are in a better position to respond/push back
  • When the issue is not as important to you as it is to the other person
  • When you accept that you are wrong
  • When you have no choice or when continued competition would be detrimental

Possible advantages of smoothing: 

  • In some cases smoothing will help to protect more important interests while giving up on some less important ones
  • Gives an opportunity to reassess the situation from a different angle

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